I am not a Posek. I am an FFB married to a BT, as is oomis1105, so I’ve had to deal with issues regarding non-Frum family.
As The Big One said; if “there are rabbis who are meikel for some of the things on your list in the interest of shalom bayit,” shouldn’t they be identified, in the interest of fairness?
What are the names of these Poskim who are meikel?
Are they meikil to attend a non-Frum wedding? Are they meikel to attend an intermarriage? What are they meikel?