Truth is, with all the checking that supposedly goes on before anyone agrees to a meeting, what is there left to talk about? You already know everything about the parents, grandparents, cousins and extended family from both sides at least 4 generations back. The parents finances have been thoroughly vetted, double and triple checked and possibly audited by one of the big 4 firms and perhaps there is even an SEC filing. The schooling, back to kindergarten has been checked and triple checked already. Where the family shops, what they buy when they buy it how they cook it, has already been through the smallest filter on the market.
Why bother speaking at all. Just sit across the table from each other for 25 minutes and if you dont feel threatened by the persons presence, or you dont feel like strangling the other person, go on to step 2 (is that another bishow, announce an engagement?)