it is really telling that when the trait of “being judgmental” is brought into the forefront the best anyone can do is “right back at you” accusing me of being judgmental because I mention it as a trait that needs to be worked on and be reigned in.
Well if you want to label me “JUDGE” for harping on the fact that I don’t appreciate when Jews keep judging their fellow JEWS unfavorably and talking about their faults in public forums, or gossiping about them among their friends then go ahead. Talk about me and what I am saying because the faster this “sinas chinam” stops the faster Ahavas Yisroel will take over.