mbachur,
“and 2. why shaving? why not going online to ask that question?
b/c there is nothing wrong with asking a shayloh “
That’s another pet peeve. He had 3 days, including Motzai Shabbos, to ask his Rav.Why do people persist in asking for piskei tshuva from anonymous posts on the internet?
If he has no Rav, there are any number of legitamite, frum websites with identified, verifiable poskim ready and willing to answer his question.