Why are we blaming the boy and criticizing him as “feeling entitled”?
It is not wrong to want to learn.
It is not wrong to want to eat.
Eating needs food; food needs money.
Now, there are three parties who can provide the money.
A. His parents
B. Her parents
C. Her.
If his parents are willing to provide the money, there is no further issue.
If not, and he still wants to learn, he looks for girls with means of support; either from parents of self.
Now, you are criticizing based on the claim that his parents should bear the burden as much as hers.
That is not the boy’s issue; it is his parents.
Parents are comprised of a combination of one man and one woman.
So women are equally to blame.
Now, if you wanted to take the boy to task for wanting to learn and not work, you are on worse ground.
The only girls affected by this are those who want a guy who will learn.
So in this issue, we do not need to assign blame since there is no victim.
So the boy is completely non-blameworthy.