“mosherose: you seem to have “talked about ????” a great deal since you started commenting and I take it based upon all your past posts that you are no rabbi “
Yur right. Im not a rav. But you dont have to be a rav to know that basic things are assur or muttar. You dont need a rav to tell you that pig is traif. In the same way you dont need a rav to tell you that you haveto follow the mishna of not speaking to your wife too much.