yg1 – Im not sure that is entirely true. I went to probably what is one of the most strictest/chumra pushing BY in the tri-state area and we were very aware what we could do to guys whith the way we dresses, maybe your sisters are very sheltered (more power to them)
I have also heard on more occassions than I care to think about, girls saying, “Well, if the boys dont like it they dont hafta look…”
Also, like I mentioned before I dont think the girls that are IN BY are the ones dressing for the guys, I think the problem starts once they leave school…