Be realistic. If someone is 200 lbs overweight don’t expect that Barbie look alikes will want to go out with you.
Be true to yourself. Think you want to marry this type of girl. Would that type of girl want to marry me? If the answer is no then what do you have to do to change yourself so you can make the answer yes.
Don’t focus on superficial stuff. It could change any day. Focus on middos and personality.
myfriend – tznius should not be a litmus test for if the girl is a good girl or not. I know plenty of really great girls but tznius is their nisayon. You can’t judge a girl based on her mode of dress.