Besides what I wrote previously, I would like to add that in my opinion, most issues in Yiddishkiet stem from a lack of knowledge and adherence to Halacha. If people knew Halacha and tried to keep it we would all be fine. It may sound simple but its a fact. We have a shulchon oruch which tells us how to live. Unfortunately most men dont know how to read one and have no clue of 95%+ of what it says in there and most women are not properly versed in the Halachos they need to know.
My life changed drastically when I was Mekabel to start learning and LIVING Halacha. It is HARD and requires sacrifice and real honesty but it is so rewarding knowing that I am living how Hashem wants me to and knowing that I will merit so much more Hashgacha Pratis in my life for those choices.