Wolf, in other instance people have cited S”A chapter and verse, you’ve retorted “no longer applicable in modern times.” So I don’t believe you have credibility to demand such claiming you’ll then mend your ways.
In other words, there is nowhere where a shiur is given. So it’s just a vague, amorphous “don’t talk too much.”
That’s not helpful at all. Perhaps I shouldn’t say anything to her at all out of doubt?
The Wolf