Reply To: Why Are Kids So Sensitive These Days?

aries2756

This Posek also deals with marriage counseling and shidduch counseling….

If a guy or girl has truly changed his or her ways and cut off ties with their past life then he/she will not be approached by anyone from his past in the street. Thats a ridiculous thing to be concerned about.

Just because you are married to someone doesnt not mean you have to know everything that ever happened to them in their past.

Marriage is about the future not the past. the past only makes problems and one with a troubled past only hurts themselves by sharing their past.

Lets be realistic, any person who had a regular straight life no real issues will be extremely reluctant to marry someone who had a troubled past. There is no rational reason to SEVERELY limit your marriage prospects and tell them about your past. People who didnt have a past are just not open minded enough to accept someone who had a past.