says who:
I’m glad you are not upset.
I’m not judging anyone (I don’t think). I was the one who tried to explain why cleaning help may be needed by someone, even in dire straits.
I am tring to explain how Hashem gave us Bechira, and everyone has choices they need to make. In many scenarios with tuition (but not close to all, and maybe not even Rov), it is not by happenstance that one does not pay in full. Many times it is due to something more valuable on which the money is being spent. Many times it is due to the unwillingness to earn what is required. Many items fall in between, and you have to Cheshbon where your priorities are. To say “it can’t be done” is just not true, but to say “I choose not to do it because…” may be a good reason.
P.S. it was a minor edit.