Reply To: The Application of the Laws of Shmiras Halashon to Shidduchim

Listen, I studied and learned Agunos. I still wouldn’t pasken. When dealing with people’s lives – you’ve got to bring in a real authority. Just like pikuach nefesh. A brief – “sure, I’d love to talk to you, but I’m running to night seder, can I call you at ten” suffices – and then buzz the LOR.