apashutayid: “With comments such as this, is it any wonder we have a problem?”
You take issue with my open discussion of the pyschological reality of older boys and consider me defaming them, yet you have no problem with defaming the hundreds of older girls who are out there waiting desperately to get a ‘yes’ from a regular normal older guy, by stating your unfounded/rediculous judgment on them that they are all picky and holding out for a better quality boy!
Yes, there are some girls who are/once were picky about the caliber of the boy they were searching for as I stated above, however, the majority of these hundreds of girls were just looking for a boy from a similar family background like their own, and the obvious reason we should attribute for the very high number of these girls being leftover in parallel to the much smaller pool of corresponding older boys, is naturally the scientific reason of the age gap factor, especially since this problem is actually happening across the board by both the families/girls whom naturally match with/are looking for the full time learning boy, AND also, in the same way, by the families/girls whom naturally match with/looking for the serious college/learning boys.