Reply To: Musical Chairs and Shidduchim

lkwdfellow: I prefer to think of every individual as a gem. There are posters here who refer to various segments as less than top tier. I apologize for any reference otherwise that i may have implied. I certainly didn’t mean anything other than to respond to previous posters.

Now to the issue at hand.

Lkwdfellow/BP Totty: you continue to argue that there are equal chairs for the participants, if only participants would consider other chairs, in other rooms etc. I once again will posit that that is simply incorrect and that is the premise of this thread. If you disagree with that premise so be it – but denying the premise doesn’t serve as a solution to it.

I repeat, i would like this thread to stay focused on that premise and solutions to it. Those who disagree/deny or are otherwise bothered by it are free ignore the thread.