SJS:
I think you are making a mistake in judgement here.
YOU are capable of taking care of a home, working, taking care of children, and being there for your husband.
There are others who are just not as mentally capable as you are.
They are unable to hold a job AND take care of children, or buy food AND take care of the home. Their husbands are not any more capable, or are the type that are not Mevatel Torah to help in the home.
None the less, they got married and now have many children.
Post-fact, they need help.