We had a situation in our shul where there was a family who once “had” and at the time of their son’s upcoming Bar Mitzvah no longer did. They planned a small vochedik affair bo b’yom but needed to do something on Shabbos. Even though many of us were not invited to the affair, we quietly behind the scenes put together the Shabbos kiddush and came to shul like inivted and honored guests to hear this boy lain and then partake in the kiddush. The boy had no knowledge that the parents did not do this for him.
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