GAW, peoples priorities are screwed up.
When my sons turn 13, they will lain (if they can) and the we will sponsor a kiddush for the shul. V’ze hu – and that’s a large expense too! If we can afford it, we may do the laining in Israel.
People have to take their own personal responsibility. the community should not be funding it.
People are very wasteful nowadays – not just simchas. Also with electricity, food abundance/type, cars, jewelry etc.
Don’t get me wrong – I love jewelry. I love to travel. I love good food. But not at my neighbors expense.