aries2756-I think I still don’t understand you. I asked why we’re blaming the girls and you answered to remind us why we have to cry and fast on tisha b’av. Is that not correct?
Mischiefmaker, I’m not blaming the girls! I am saying that we should stop judging everyone and show more ahavas yisroel, that is why we still cry and fast on Tisha B’av, because of our lack of ahavas yisroel and our involvement of sinas chinam!