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kasha i’m seriously gona ask a shayla. I feel like im locked in jail if i can’t go out even over the course of ONE DAY!

also note – what about the gemara where the wife of aba chilkiya? im not sure went out to great him all badekt in jewelery and his talmidim asked why… so what about that? it was assur for her to go out?

No one is saying anything is assur mamish. Again its all sensitivities. And another aspect of tznius – not to talk loudly.

Mbachur- yes women have nine sichos and men 1 but they can control themselvs and use it in the right time and place that’s no excuse for shmoozing loudly and for a long time in the street.

wolf – are asking for trouble. I get very very uncomfortable when men say good shabbos to me. What should i do? i usually just nod making no eye contact. But PLEASE dont’ put other women in that situation. if it’s a family friend, ok i hear but c’mon.