If the picture is for the shadchan as a way to remember who they spoke with and met, I have no problems with it, as long as it stays in the shadchans file. I do have an issue with people demanding to see a picture before agreeing to a date. I have a neighbor with a daughter entering the shidduchim phase of her life and when they were asked for a photo (well, demanded is more accurate) of their daughter, they were so turned off by the shadchans request, how it was “requested” and the reasons given for the request that they promptly sent over a photo of their daughter from her kindergaten graduation.
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