The guys don’t feel it the same way, because the type of guy who needs to be married by age 20, to a girl who is 18 or 19, usually is learning fulltime and has absolutely NO concept (YET) of what the achrayus of marriage actually entails, because his new bride is doing it all for him, and what she is not doing, her parents probably are. So for him, getting married is truly ALL perks. For her, not so much, necessarily. I don’t say this is true ALL the time, but it is true enough of the time to be obvious, IMO.
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