If she works , maybe she can work out something in middle of the day, and have it as her lunch hour, so her parents wouldnt need to know about it at all. I know of a friend that arranged it that way and it worked really great!
Also, I can see Why people are afraid of going for help.. People around here when they inquire about a shidduch would dismiss and right away so no to such a shidduch, obv. the girlboy is less than perfect if she/he needed therapy , why should I or my child have to live with someone who has problems? Yes, you’re going to argue that alot of people have problems they just didnt take care of it or u dont know about it.. But, why would u take something you DO know?