says who – its not only you who doesn’t think its a good idea. Gedolim (i’d rather not mention who) from @ least 400 years ago were against the fact that husbands would go away for wks at a time for PARNASSA. Now that’s talking about obviously poor people yet he still said its better to live even more poorly than to have the husband away. Its terrible for the husband, wife and children. No one gains. It’s terrible for the shalom bayis… and he was speaking about PARNASSA! here it’s more of a luxury thing, vacation.
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