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July 14, 2010 4:44 pm at 4:44 pm
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anonymrs
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aries, i agree but how is a man supposed to know the diff between “my wife is exhausted because its 10 at night” and “my wife is exhausted because shes had a long/hard day at work/with the kids” if she doesnt tell him which it is? how can a woman become resentful of the fact that her husband isnt picking it up if it is not obvious? spouses are not mind readers, and many (men especially) prefer to stay out of anything that is emotionally charged, if they can. so if a woman can be exhausted for many reasons, her husband may pick the simplest reason, if she doesnt give him anything else to go with.