aussie, I hear what you’re saying and you definitely have a point, but I think you have to know the person level (somewhat) before you start bashing them (in public!!!), if there is a girl on the ddr it may be better than wherever they were coming from.
ames, my guess is that horseback riding is easier because it’s not usually done in a populated area (am I right? I never went) and its a gray area, as in sensitivity, no answer is right or wrong.