apushatayid
your ranting makes very little sense.
I’ll try to break it down for you, if you read from the beginning it should help.
In any case, i wrote i was in a store (so stop assuming it was a women’s clothing store) i heard goish music in the 3 weeks with a woman singer.
yitayningwut wrote they have poskim to rely on, i asked which ones? but i didn’t want someone to say rabbi cohen, who maybe says (I’ll check later) that one or two poskim say you could listen to music during the 3 weeks, because that would only address 1 out of 3 issues.
There are 3 separate issues so i broke it down.
I hope you see how asking if it was classical music, or a women’s store etc.. doesn’t make much sense