apushatayid: Like myfriend said, when you take a Chasuna photo you don’t expect to see it in the newspaper or mass distributed. Theres nothing to indicate anyone in it approved of its later usage. I didn’t see anyone here say photos are 100% assur.
As far as hernor, I’ve also heard Rabbonim use that when calling their Rebbetzin, and smartcookie correctly translated it (hear, please). (I believe smartcookie previously identified him/herself as a native Yiddish speaker?)