Reply To: Hotel on Night of Chasunah

“However, there’s a certain feeling of it being the “first night” and many ppl feel that they want the night to be spent in a hotel setting.”

mischiefmaker

That’s exactly what I’m talking about. Our Zaida’s and Bubbe’s in the alte heim didn’t have such ideas. This idea has crept into our people unfortunately, with people often not even thinking about this or where this foreign idea came from.