we live in eretz yisroel. usually people will stay for family simchas. if you recieve an invite in the mail telling you when the wedding is, you are invited to sit and eat. as of late, people have written in the card ,the times of the chuppa, and simchas, chosson and kalla. that means you go to either or. you don’t need to go to both. if you can’t make it because of the travelling, don’t go. people are trying to cut down on expenses. you don’t need the chicken. it’s not an insult. some people from certain communities are invited to two simchos a nite. we aren’t speaking about pple. that only go to weddings once in a while. we cannot possibly go and sit each day. these pple go to say mazel tov and leave and it’s hard enough with that. if you are an out of town friend, more than an hr. drive away, usually pple will invite you for the meal. b’smachot.
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