To all of you out there! I thank you so much ur super advice and understanding support. You have no idea how much they mean to me! Knowing that there are ppl out there with whom I can confide in anonymously, and still get outstanding advice eases the situation a lot!!
I’ve read all your responses and gave lots of thought to each of your comments. I had lots of what to think on Shabbos, and will be making soon a decision of how to approach this matter.
Again, I really appreciate your comments! And I’m proud to be part of the Om hanivchar where brothers and sisters help each others without even having the slightest clue who the recipient is.
Thank you all! I’ll keep you posted of any positive development.