bein_hasdorim: 1)Either start hinting to your (mother) or father rather, men are more rational, and wont be ruled by emotion, which will make your message easier to sink in. M
Um…bein_hasdorim…no feminist here, but speaking as a rationale female…I think you should have just said “whichever parent you think would be able to accept this information in a more calm and reasonable fashion”. Not only would that have been less prejudiced, but it also would have been more practical…Just sayin’! 😉