If this shidduch is meant to be, I hope “stranded” will not let her FRIENDS decide for her whom she is best suited to marry. This is especially so because unfortunately, girls tend to leave many of their old friends in the dust after they get married, and then she could be REALLY stranded! Let her marry the person whom SHE deems right for herself, and let the others marry the full-time learners if that is what they desire.
This entire coversation seems a bit premature, by the way.