Wow, this story is very nice, nice boy indeed. However, it is obvious that we are talking about very modern circles. For 2 girls to engage in talk with the boy is modern. You have to be polite, but this is an area where pple are stumble. Yes, there shouldve been a shadchan. If the boy wanted to take the girl for coffee he shouldve asked someone to set him up as apposed to setting himself up “after a good coversation.”
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