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February 8, 2009 2:55 am at 2:55 am
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When the person spoken about is present at the time the information is related and does not protest: Do not assume he is in agreement as he may believe there is no point in fighting, he did not want to cause further machloket, or even if he usually argues assume he overcame his yetzer in this instance. (You can also assume he is just better than the person speaking!)
The person relating the information has additional aveirot of embarresing someone publicly aside from the dozens of aveirot and the kilkulim.