curious, about what you said with the terms lie yeshivish etc… I have seen MANY misunderstandings because of it!!!
Also are we finished with posting halachos??
Well I’ll post from the sefer I am learning the day that I am up to:
RECHILUS (causing bad feelings between ppl) IS FORBIDDEN EVEN WHEN
A) YOU WRITE THE INFO B) YOU AGREE WITH THE INFO C) YOU WOULD REPEAT IT IN FRONT OF THE SPEAKER.
for example: Baruch tells you “Your brother is so selfish. He never does a favor for me when I ask him to!” It is assur to repeat this to your brother even if you wouldn’t be afraid to say it in front of Baruch.
It happens to be even worse if you say it in front of Baruch because if he isn’t there your brother could assume you misunderstood Baruch. But if Baruch hears and says nothing then your brother knows for sure he said it and it will magnify the bad feelings.