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March 14, 2010 4:20 pm at 4:20 pm
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Metziut
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I would not test a date, and would not want to be tested. I don’t think it’s fair, you don’t always know why a person responds the way they do.
Also dating is itself a very stressful situation, who needs to be worrying about being tested? Just see who the person is, over time stresses come up, you hear about their history, no one lives without stress and you will have a chance to see how they respond to challenges. you’re not evaluating the person, you’re seeing if you’re compatible with them.
I see a date as getting to know the other person, not to put nisyonos in their path.