to: shtusim
none of what you wrote makes sense.
you wrote “Pesach is about memories and family” no it’s about discussing our redemption from Egypt, not about nice memories, that’s what a Sunday afternoon is for
you wrote “Unless circumstances dictate that you must go, it is really a crime.” why is it a crime? because some ppl enjoy the hotel experience? some woman can’t handle all the cooking and cleaning?
you wrote “Going into Golus to celebrate cheirus really doesn’t make sense.” how is going to a hotel; and being served going into golus?? and staying home and starting to clean the table at 2:00am until 3 or 3:30am is cheirus by you?