oomis1105: I am not saying it is unfair (that is for a separate discusion), I am not saying it is owed. I am not even saying shadchanim should ask for it.
I simply wrote that parents who offer it to shadchanim will get attention and thus its a very smart thing for parents to do to help their daughters-you think??
DO you think that it won’t help?-your dead wrong.
or do you think parents shouldn’t do it, even though it will help??