Vovlie:
Incorrect: That 24 year old boy who the 23 year old girl is hesitant to seriously consider (for whatever reason) may well end up marrying a 19 year old. Meaning a 19 yaer old got married instead of a 23 year old. If that 23 year old girl would seriously consider the suggestion (because of the plus 4 advice) then she would potentially get married at that time instead of a 19 year old. THAT is NOT reshuffling the deck on the titanic.
In addition the suggestions to the individual girls had nothing to do with the problem at large. They would just proven suggestions to help individual girls. To help the larger problem we need to implement the suggestions that were mentioned previously and are presently being worked on.