Bodek: Sorry to disappoint you but chassidish people just have more normal expectations.
Regarding the support; 2-3 years is considered wonderful because it is NOT the womens job to support the family.
Bodek – does your father learn full time? And if he does, how are your sisters being supported? We cant live on ten generations of being supported coz that great-great-great-great granfather is buried already.
Does Having a degree guarantee you a job forever?