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Bodek
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Chassidish pple definitly have less expectations… ask rochelle about it – she seems to know alot about how they work.

For one, the girls do not expect their husbands to learn forever – 2-3 years is considered beautiful by many.

support is also not such an issue – since the husband goes to work sooner and can support the family.

degree’s are not in the picture (could be its more accepted now – i’m not sure)

looks are not a factor- since the chassidish boys haven’t been looking at girls since they are 13 (or earlier) so as long as a girl is not ugly – she has a big chance since she is not being compared to a rock star…

anyone have anything else to add?

feel free to add to my list 🙂