AZ,
I’m not disagreeing with you, just noting that it would take a sea-change to effect the kind of change you are talking about. Although it might be true that you often pay a lawyer for time and not for results (not always), and for that matter you pay a gardener for his time, not waiting to see if his efforts bore fruit and the garden bloomed the way you envisioned, it has not been done with shadchanim this way previously, and change is always hard.