why is it so surprising that someone would ask a rav/rebbi/rebbe before going through with a shidduch? i think it actually says a lot about that person. we are always told that we should consult da’as torah before making big decisions, and as far as i know getting married is pretty big. i hope that when they are ready, my children (sons and daughters alike) consult with someone before going through with a shidduch.
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