I once brought a girl to meet my parents after 5 dates, at the girl’s request, and I can’t say I would recommend it to anyone else. The problem was not b/c my parents were putting her through the ringer, they trust me to decide if a girl is for me or not. The difference between boys and girls meeting perspective in-laws in my opinion is that boys are usually not looking for anything in their in-laws they only care about the girl. On the other hand girls (at least some of them) have an idea in their head of exactly how their married life should be and how everything is going to be perfect so when they feel a little uncomfortable when meeting their possible future in-laws it’s a much bigger deal to them.
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