Reply To: Dating Someone You’ve Already Dated

“First of all, if I were itsallyourfault I would change my username before getting into a marriage situation.”

I could always change it to “itsallmyfault” but honestly the username is not reflective of my attitude, it’s kind of a joke.

“Also, when you say “They seem to be compatible hashkafah wise and they get along well” are you sure that it is not just that “they get along well” and that is why they “SEEM to be compatible hashkafah wise”?”

The reason I used the word “seem” is that there is no way to know for sure if the other person is being honest or just agreeable. That said, I don’t think that’s the case here b/c there are some details that I left out of the story for privacy reasons that make it “seem” like something else was bothering her which could be a reason not to go out again but also could be just a misunderstanding. Anyway, there is no way to know for sure without asking.