First of all,in my humble opinion one should NOT ever get into a debate about it. If your intention is to explain to someone why you feel it is the lifestyle you want to choose for yourself, fine. But if you are trying to “talk someone into or out of it,” for themselves, I wouldn’t do it. There is only ONE reason why someone should marry a learning boy and that is that the girl WANTS to embrace the lifestyle that the kollel life entails.
