Jphone, not knowing the girl or the situation, I am not sure if what you said to her was warranted or not. Sometimes someone knows something about the guy that they simply do not want to talk about to anyone, for fear of saying L”H. There might be many characteristics about the person that they would like in a spouse, but that particular person has done or said something that puts him out of the running. But maybe there is a problem in his family that puts the girl off, but she likes his TYPE in other respects. We should not judge so quickly. There could be a family dynamic going on that is potentially a problem, and she prefers to look elsewhere, as is her prerogative.
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