This gem of a girl is better off without Mr. Best Bochur. The problem is, he (or his folks)THINKS he’s the best bochur.
Let him enjoy his moment in the sun; it fades real fast.
And to the people who use the “chazal” stick, that determintion is best left to Best Bochur’s rov / Rosh Yeshiva. I wonder if they were consulted, or was Yiddish blit spilt on a hunch?
Not to worry, she will surely get the spouse that is best suited for her, as will Mr. Best Bochur. (But I only envy her)