I heard a story where a Bochur asked what he should talk about on a date. He was told to follow the old formula, the three “F’s”, Food, Family and Philosophy.
SO he goes out on his date and he asks the girl, “do you like meat balls and spagehtti?” SHe answers no.
Next he gets to family and asks, ” do you have any brothers?” again she asweres “no”.
Fianlly he asks, ” If you had a brother, would he like spagehtti and meatballs.”
And that is how he covered all three “F’s”.